His voice was deep and his pants rode low, sitting on his hips hips I would soon know well, in the biblical sense. I also currently have a body-positive partner who unapologetically adores me with a passion and humility that warms my heart every single day. Derek is my neighbor, though we met online. Calling myself a BBW is new to me.
This Study About Which Types of Women’s Bodies Men Prefer Is Pointless and Irresponsible
How to Come to Terms with Your Attraction to 'Fat Girls'
A week ago, an Instagram post of a man proclaiming that he finds his wife attractive went viral. Why you might wonder did such a banal statement garner so much attention? It was as if he thought he was the only man in the world to have a plus sized wife he found attractive and that this made him a divine godsend of a husband. On the flipside, if a woman proclaimed how she found her larger husband attractive, no one would care. But thank the lord that another mediocre man finds a plus sized woman attractive. No one can accuse someone like Lenny Henry for only doing Comic Relief purely for attention, or Bono for doing Live Aid because he wanted people to think he was great. The power of social media to let hundreds of people know what upstanding citizens we are seems to have inflated our sense of importance.
What It's Really Like to Date as a Fat Woman
A study that didn't need to exist in the first place had results that will surprise no one, because that's the way things work these days. Greater body fatness might reflect greater potential to survive famines, but individuals carrying larger fat stores may have poor health and lower fertility in non-famine conditions. Red Online wrote about the study, and the article headline was provocative if not triggering. Researchers conducting the study used a sample size of 1, men from only 10 countries.
I'm not shy about my big body. The way I see it, if you can't handle my stretch marks, then you don't deserve my cellulite. I wasn't always like this. I used to be the girl who insisted on sex with the lights off.