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Difficulty reaching female orgasm | healthdirect
Anorgasmia is the medical term for regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation. The lack of orgasms distresses you or interferes with your relationship with your partner. Orgasms vary in intensity, and women vary in the frequency of their orgasms and the amount of stimulation needed to trigger an orgasm. Most women require some degree of direct or indirect clitoral stimulation and don't climax from penetration alone. Plus, orgasms often change with age, medical issues or medications you're taking. If you're happy with the climax of your sexual activities, there's no need for concern. However, if you're bothered by the lack of orgasm or the intensity of your orgasms, talk to your doctor about anorgasmia.
There’s Help for Women Who Can’t Achieve Orgasm
Error: This is required. Error: Not a valid value. It's not uncommon for a woman to never have experienced an orgasm during sexual activity. It is common for women not to have orgasms.
Sex therapists frequently get questions from frustrated female patients who struggle to have an orgasm. In fact, a Cosmopolitan survey of 2, women ages 18 to 40 found that only 57 percent of women have an orgasm most or every time they have sex with a partner. We reached out to three sex therapists and gathered their expert tips, suggestions and other kernels of wisdom that will have you on your way to the Big O.