Question: Maybe I should know this and maybe I do. But just to be sure, can you tell me where the clitoris is and how I should touch it? Answer: If only more men were as brave as you to ask such a question! You wouldn't believe how many women have told me that they're pretty certain their boyfriend has no idea where the clitoris is or what to do with it when they find it. If you were in bed and your girlfriend was laying down, with her legs apart, and you were right there looking at her vulva, then the clitoris would be at the 12 o'clock position of the vulva. It is not inside the vagina, but directly above it, and is covered by a little fleshy area called the clitoral hood.
A quick illustrated guide to finding the clitoris
How to Touch the Clitoris: Moves, Positions, and Orgasms
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How To Find The Clit
Some people with vulvas are lucky. Happily, as far as search expeditions go, this is a decidedly fun one. When it comes to zeroing in on the clit, there are generally three main options. The first is using a mirror to look at the vulva and locate the clitoris visually. Other people feel around with their fingertips to locate the clitoral head by touching it.
There are so many questions about this little but mighty body part! What do you picture when you think of the clitoris? Is it part of the external genitalia? Something else?